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And Where You Are Is Where You Are Not - T.S. Elliot
St. Louis was first for many things that promoted a richness of experience in my early years, helping to form my worldview. These are:...
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Aug 30, 20243 min read
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YOUR MAMA WEARS ARMY BOOTS
One of the common calls on the playground, in somebody's yard, basement, or the neighborhood lot where we played baseball (and mind you,...
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Jul 31, 20247 min read
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Where I Began: Jefferson Barracks
Thinking back on my first years on Earth gives me reason for pause: my first three years of life were spent in a place steeped with...
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Jul 25, 20249 min read
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GRETCHEN
Gretchen Margaret Dupander, my paternal grandmother, was born in 1893. She was the only living grandparent I had growing up and while I...
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Sep 9, 202310 min read
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Of Fate, Francophiles, and The Thing: Part 2 of Growing up in St. Louis
The S. family's tale did not end happily, but wherever Kathy is now, I hope that she is happy and well. Joyce was three years older than...
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Jul 30, 20237 min read
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Growing Up in St. Louis: A Gateway to Shakespeare, A Monkey Trial, and a Decapitated Chicken
Part I: I was born in St. Louis, Missouri at Barnes-Jewish Hospital in 1946. St. Louis was my home until I moved to Dallas, Texas at...
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Jul 30, 202312 min read
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WE WERE ALL NINETEEN ONCE: Thank you Bob Dylan
At my age, another birthday doesn't feel as if it should merit celebration. I wake up, stare at myself in the mirror, and in spite of the...
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Jun 18, 20236 min read
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HEADIN' SOUTH
Although it was an Impala advertised on television at the end of The Dinah Shore Chevy Show, our baby-blue and white two-tone,1957...
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May 24, 20238 min read
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The Depression of the Great Depression
Depression Syndromes: The Great Depression indubitably imprinted permanent dysphoria on the children who grew up during those years,...
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May 20, 202314 min read
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Gifts of the Magi
My most cherished, and one of my earliest memories, is of Christmas 1951. I was five and it was the most magical Christmas ever. As...
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Apr 19, 20235 min read
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Toys 'R Me
Like any child, I was enamored with toys and a few I remember with great fondness. One was my portable record player. I don't recall...
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Apr 17, 20236 min read
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Another Day, Another Swimming Hole
Holiday Inn: Holiday Hill was a forerunner of Six Flags. About five miles from my family's first house in the suburban area of Bel-Ridge,...
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Mar 17, 20236 min read
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Of Mice and Marathons
Having a swimming pool in one's back yard was unusual in St. Louis. The winters were long and the summer season hot and short. Most folks...
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Mar 14, 20235 min read
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Swimming Strokes, Beaches, Swimming Holes and a Pig
Swimming in St. Louis and Sunny Florida: Summer in St. Louis could be hot and humid and finding ways to cool off were not always easy. My...
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Mar 7, 202310 min read
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A Valentine to My Parents
Mary Margaret Pointer - b. September 15, 1924; d. February 13, 1981 Dad's Parachute: Although Mom's proclivity for eccentricity sometimes...
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Feb 12, 20238 min read
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What's Education Got to Do With It?
My mother quit school shortly after she entered the eighth grade, just two years after her fifth grade teacher punished her in front of...
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Jan 28, 20232 min read
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The Creepies
Sometimes, Mom was just downright creepy. When she and Dad went to Europe in the early 70s, they stopped in merry old England first. Of...
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Jan 28, 20233 min read
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Premonitions and A Circus Performance
My two children and I lived in New York with my mother and father in the late 1970s until I remarried in 1981. one day after work, I...
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Jan 28, 20234 min read
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MILK
4311 Linton Avenue, built in 1908. This is the flat in the Fairground Neighborhood in North St. Louis where my father grew up. He lived...
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Jan 28, 20232 min read
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Memory Lane
Mom shared many of her own memories and stories with me. Here are a few: Dancing: Mom met Dad while he was on military leave in St. Louis...
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Jan 10, 20237 min read
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